GUEST ARTICLE
What about Sports?
There are many factors that shape the values and priorities
of our youth in this age. One factor I have noticed in the
lives of many youngsters is that of organized, competitive
sports.
Historically, the influence of sports was predominantly
seen in lives of boys and men. Today, however, both sexes
seem to be affected.
Whereas young women of a few generations ago were diligently
taught by their mothers and grandmothers how to keep a house,
clean, cook, bake, sew, care for and desire to have children,
and many other such domestic skills, today a young woman
searches in vain to find time with her mother. For you see,
Mom is putting in 40 hours a week on the job to help pay
the mortgage installment debt, and keep the comfortable lifestyle
to which the family has become accustomed.
Not only does the average girl have no knowledge of how
to change a diaper and care for a baby, she probably does
not desire to be a mother anyway. She has learned from her
family and her peers that you cannot afford children, they
get in the way, are a tremendous responsibility, a mess,
a bother, and besides, the world is overpopulated anyway,
is it not?
Our contemporary young lass is an expert in some areas however.
She may be aware of the latest contemporary "Christian
rock" stars, she can "slam dunk" the basketball
as well as being proficient in several other sports.
If our great-grandmothers would arrive at a modern Christian
school girls' basketball game, they would recoil in the horror
as they would watch physically developed girls running around
in brief outfits that expose their thighs and bouncing bosoms
to the lustful eyes of any man wishing to look. Moreover,
they would be shocked as they would see girls trying to "kill
the opponent," yell, scream, fight, and in general,
act in every way like a man.
Whatever happened to girls who studied to have a servant
spirit and to be quiet, meek, demure, and shame faced? How
are we training our girls to be meek, quiet, and submissive
wives by encouraging them to "win at all costs," knock
over your opponent if necessary, be loud, froward, and physical,
while being dressed immodestly and while acting in a very
masculine manner? Just because the world encourages these
qualities in their daughters, must God's people do the same?
Is it any wonder many girls from Christian backgrounds consider
motherhood and being a housewife as being unfulfilling, a
bore, unexciting, and beneath their dignity.
Moreover, many of these sports heroines have developed such
boldness and forwardness from their sports activities, that
they disdain the traditional and Biblical role of women.
To such a girl, the Biblical mandate to be in submission
to her husband and to even reverence him (Ephesians 5:24,
33) is outdated and unrealistic. She instead finds the raucous
demands of "feminists" and the women's liberation
crowd more to her liking. After all, marriage is a 50/50
proposition is it not? She thinks to herself "I have
just as much say around here as he does don't l?"
When such a girl marries, she is so quick and eager to establish "fairness" in
her marriage, that she finds her marriage ending up in frustration,
disillusionment and divorce.
Not only has the Christian world allowed organized, competitive
sports to help in robbing its daughters of their Biblical
feminine role, its sons are in equally perilous straits.
Many of our sons have contemporary sports figures as their
heroes!
Gone is the sports figure who is a clean-cut, wholesome
model for our youngsters. Organized sports now has unionization
to insure their already astronomical salaries and perquisites,
as well as add to them if possible. Greed, selfishness, and
monetary gain have replaced the desire to play for enjoyment
or recreation. Longhaired, tobacco-chewing, liquor drinking,
foul mouthed, immoral, dopeheads ought not to be the subjects
of our conversation, admiration, or interest. Whereas not
every sports figure is guilty of this lifestyle, it is all
too characteristic of many of them.
I myself have witnessed parishoners glancing at their watches
if the sermon was getting long! They may miss a part of the
game if the service doesn't end soon! So much for allowing
the Holy Spirit to speak to the sports enthusiast during
the preaching or invitation. Others miss the services of
their local church altogether in order to watch their chemically
dependent sports heroes on T.V. Whatever happened to our
sense of eternal values? What are we teaching our children
about attendance at God's house?
I personally hope the sports figures lose every game they
play on Sunday! Some of them claim to be believers. I can
only accept their profession, but I cannot help but wonder
about their testimony: missing worship services to play on
the Lord's Day and tempting others to desecrate the Lord's
Day by watching them. Not only so, but how can they glorify
Christ by being the professional performer who is paid by
the soul damning liquor traffic and tobacco industry? Can
they say they are being uniquely and particularly used of
the Lord as the announcer interrupts coverage of the game
to encourage the fans to drink liquor and use tobacco products?
I am informed there was one professional player who refused
to play on days when he regularly worshipped. Sadly, this
was not a Christian, but a Jew. I hope there have been some
Christians who have had similar character, but I have not
heard of any.
Whereas I can understand the interest of the world in professional
sports, I cannot understand or appreciate Bible believers
being supporters and fans of a movement so filled with the
world carnality, wrong character, and sinful practices.
If you see your son worshipping and emulating several of
his longhaired sports heroes, parents you are at fault. You
have either encouraged this by your example, permission,
or default.
Precious financial resources in Christian education are
often siphoned off into organized sports that could have
been better spent on soul building, character building projects.
What is the value of our sons winning trophies and breaking
records if they have little or no interest in serving the
Lord, Scripture memory, and leading a soul to Christ?
In my opinion, a youngster who learns obedience and humility
toward his authority, separates himself from this world and
all it has to offer, and chooses to pick up the bloodstained
banner of the cross, has chosen an infinitely better course
than the sports hero who may be very carnal.
Whereas the latter has popularity and notoriety with his
peers, the former is popular with God! It seems to me that
those of us in Christian Education need to be careful of
our priorities in this area.
What about the Christian school or Bible college, which
through its obedience to the Biblical doctrine of separation,
has achieved a good degree of purity and high standards in
its student body. What a shame to see this sacrificed in
the name of competitive sports when that same school begins
to compete against other schools in a league or conference
that would mock or ridicule those Godly standards. Many schools
recognizing the danger of exposing their youth to carnality
and worldliness, have wisely chosen to limit athletic activities
to events among only their own students.
If a Christian school does not field a basketball, baseball,
or soccer team, etc., they are almost made to feel second
rate or inferior. Perhaps they have chosen the wiser course?
Certainly all athletic activities are not sinful. In fact,
Paul says there is a little profit in exercise. But how careful
we must be in what priorities we are teaching our youth.
Parents, if your children are normal, they probably have
some "heroes" whose lives they are following with
admiration and interest. They also probably have absorbing
interests beyond their household chores, family and school
work. If those heroes and interests are sports figures and
sports events, can you honestly say this will help them to
grow in the grace and knowledge of Christ?
Sports and sports figures are tremendously popular, but
since when does a Bible Christian approve of and endorse
something based on its popularity? In fact, Scripture says
the opposite: "Thou shalt not follow a multitude to
do evil". (Exodus 23:2). Instead, we must ask, is it
right? Does it please God? Will it draw me closer to the
Lord?
Ronald E. Williams, Hephzibah House
508 School St.. Winona Lake, IN 46590
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